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How do I join?
If you are located in MI or WI “member only” states, we require that you fill out and mail us the current year membership form.  The form can be obtained from either your local RC or on our website at and click on Join. New this year, membership can be processed online via PayPal.  Follow instructions and prompts on the Join page.  .

What do I get for $40?
+ One year national membership in Stilettos on Steel ® - Female Riders Group
+ Member ID card with your personal number.  This number is yours forever, even if you have a lapse in membership for any reason.
+ Member patch or annual member item
+ Website picture honoring your membership
+ Access to private Facebook group for networking in your state
+ Invitation to all SOS sponsored rides
+ Invitation to all SOS sponsored events
+ Invitation to all SOS participating rides and events
+ Listed in and provided with electronic Member directory
+ Listed in SOS Passport to Ride publication
+ Provided with directory of SOS friendly establishments
+ Participate in contests for prizes
+ Discounts at participating sponsors
+ Right to purchase and wear custom membership merchandise available in the online store

I just sent my check in, what’s next?
Depending on where you live, your membership should reach our WI PO BOX in 2-5 days.  The mail is checked 1-2 times per week unless it’s during any holiday.  Once we have your membership form we process that form in 2-3 weeks.  You will be introduced to the members in your state using the information you provided and added to the private FB page.  You are assigned a member ID and will be mailed a packet to the address you provided.  You will be assigned to a chapter closest to you if you did not request to be in a specific chapter.  An officer or assisting member should contact you within 2 weeks of your introduction to welcome you and ask if you have any immediate questions.

I don’t see the private Facebook page, now what?
We ask that you help us out by asking to join the private page.  We will send you an invite thru the email provided on your form.  Once you accept this invitation you should see that you have been tagged in a welcome post.  If you are having trouble figuring this out, please contact your RC or email and we will walk you through it. We know not everyone is FB savvy, we will help you.

I didn’t get my membership packet, who do I contact?

Membership packets are sent out in April each year to your chapter RC for distribution.  We ask that if you are renewing membership that you have your forms in by Feb 1st.  If you miss this deadline or join after the initial April mailing you will have your packet mailed directly to you 4-6 weeks after we receive your membership application/renewal.  For any additional questions, email