MEMBERSHIP IS CLOSED FOR 2025

We will reopen membership for the 2026 season on November 1st, 2025


Looking for a sisterhood of riders? We are proud to mentor and ride with women in 29 States 

Find a chapter near you with our interactive map: www.stilettosonsteel.com/chapters


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Before You Join

Please review all information below before registering, as membership fees are non-refundable. By joining, you agree to uphold all membership requirements, rules, and conduct policies.

Membership Overview

  • Annual Membership Fee: $52.50 includes your processing fee and sales tax
  • Membership Term: November 1, 2025 – December 31, 2026
  • Deadline to Join: August 1, 2026
  • No prorated dues. No refunds for any reason.

What’s Included

  • National Stilettos on Steel® Membership 
  • Member ID card
  • Annual year patch and/or commemorative item
  • Website feature, optional
  • Access to private National Collective Facebook group
  • Access to private state Facebook group
  • Invitations to exclusive rides & events

Website Feature (Optional)

Want to be listed on our public site? 

Select “Yes” during registration. Your first name, last initial, chapter, and a photo you upload will be displayed.

Photo Guidelines:

  • High quality, clear image
  • Includes you and your motorcycle
  • No alcohol, gestures, or revealing attire

Membership Requirements

To join, you must:

  • Be a kind, respectful, supportive woman seeking friendship
  • Be comfortable riding with new or experienced riders
  • Must be licensed to ride a motorcycle in accordance with your state laws or intend to get licensed within your first year of membership, You will not be able to renew until you obtain a state license
  • Own a motorcycle that is registered, insured in a safe and operational condition
  • Understand this is a social riding group, not a motorcycle club. Do not assume that club etiquette is socal riding group law. Do not mimic the (MC) culture
  • Review and accept our Rules of Conduct

Rules of Conduct

By joining, you agree to:

  • Treat all members with respect and kindness
  • Uphold these rules and promise to protect, respect, and be kind to all members.  We should not act towards one another with immaturity, harsh criticism or lack of acceptance. We have different personalities, backgrounds and beliefs. Therefore, we should be unconditional with our respect and kindness.
  • Avoid gossip, discrimination, or personal attacks. Do not bring personal issues and negative drama into the group.
  • Uphold safety for yourself and the members of Stilettos on Steel by refraining from alcohol use at events and adhering to our zero-tolerance policy for illegal drugs and operating under the influence of any substance. 
  • Report any abuse of these Rules of Conduct to your Regional Coordinator

⚠️ Violation of conduct may result in immediate membership termination — no refund provided.

Membership Processing

  • New and renewing members will be connected with a chapter officer within 30 days of joining
  • it's your responsibility to update your mailing address on your profile, labels are generated from your account. Please format your address correctly to ensure receiving your member packet.
  • Membership packets are mailed within 30 days of payment, if you do not receive your welcome packet it is up to you to contact Membership@stilettosonsteel.com and let them know. 
  • Members are added to private Facebook groups upon confirmation

Please note: Your membership is not active until payment is received.  You will be routed to a payment screen after completing your profile information below.

Refund & Proration Policy

  • Membership fees are not refundable, regardless of reason
  • Membership dues are not prorated
  • If your membership is terminated, you will not receive a refund

These terms are non-negotiable and agreed upon at registration.

Not Ready to Join?

You can still connect with us! Join our open Facebook page: Stilettos on Steel - Female Riders Group
Public events are listed on our Events pages (website) or (Facebook).
Private events are reserved for registered members only.

Registration FAQs

Q: What if I don’t know my Member ID? 

 A: Contact your Regional Coordinator (RC). A valid ID is required to register.

Q: I don’t have a credit/debit card. 

 A: Select “Pay by check” during checkout. A printable payment slip will be provided. You need to have your pop-up blocker turned off.

Q: I don’t see my state or chapter listed. 

 A: We may not have a chapter in your state. Visit the New Chapter page to inquire about starting one.

Q: I need to update my info or upload a photo. 

 A: Log in to “My Account” using your email and password. Edits can only be made after payment is received.

Q: I don’t use Facebook. A: That’s okay! Let us know during registration and your officer will reach out via email or text. You’ll still be welcome at all events listed on our public calendar.

Q. I used to be a member, I don't ride anymore. Can I join for the social activities?

 A: If you were a member in good standing, you are always a welcome member regardless of your current riding status. Please refer to each individual states requirements via email to the State Coordinator (SC)


Need Help?

Email your Regional Coordinator.  You can find their email address on your chapter's web page.

A list of contacts are located at the bottom of these pages 

Things to Know About Registration

  • Member ID: Returning members need their member ID (3-digit like 003, 056, 113, or 4-digit for numbers over 1000). You don't need to type all leading zeros.
  • Profile Creation: All members will create a "My Account" profile to update personal information and upload photos for the Website Feature.
  • Payments: Credit/debit card payments are processed through Stripe (includes processing fee and sales tax). You won't be redirected to another site. Click "Pay by check" for a payment slip to mail with your check.
  • Confirmations: You'll receive separate emails for membership and payment confirmation. The membership email includes your RC contact info and state Facebook group link.

How to Register

  1. Profile Info: Enter your personal email and create a password. Officers should add their @stilettosonsteel.com email in "Alternate Email." Enter "No Facebook" if you don't have Facebook.
  2. Chapter & Bike Info: Select your state, chapter, and member type from drop-downs. Enter your member ID# (no leading zeros needed).
  3. Agreement & Rules: Type your name, check "I am not a robot," and click Submit.
  4. Payment: Enter card information or click "Pay by check" to print a payment slip.
  5. Confirmation: You'll receive a registration email immediately. A payment confirmation follows once processed.
  6. Profile Activation: Your website profile activates after payment is received, allowing you to update information and upload photos. Your membership packet will be mailed once payment is confirmed.

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